The past few weeks can be summed up in two words: RAIN and SPANISH.
The rainy season lasted all the way into mid-March this year, and was - in my opinion - pure torture. This past week was the first time we've had clear, blue skies and sunshine in what seems like months. But thanks to all that rain, the mountains are green and the city is full of flowers and trees. The forecast from now until November is pretty much 77 degrees and sunny. I love Cochabamba!
I started an intense Spanish study the second week of February that will continue on through April. It became painfully clear in January that I couldn't juggle both full-time ministry and Spanish study. And since I'm going to be living here for at least 2 years, I need to be able to communicate and express myself well. So with the support of ITeams and Risen Savior, my sending church, I started focusing on Spanish full-time and put my work at El Centro on pause. I've not cut myself off from the ministry. I still pop in during the week when my class schedule allows it, but I don't have any planning/teaching responsibilities during the weekly afternoon program.
In the meantime, I've been busy planning out some new Saturday afternoon activities at El Centro that I'm starting on April 5. David has activities on Saturday nights for the teenage boys, but there is nothing on the weekends for kids of all ages. The afternoon program centers around classes and lessons, so my hope is that the activities on Saturdays will be fun, exciting, and special with puppet shows, skits, songs, games, and crafts.
My Spanish tutor's younger sister, Ruth, is going to help me with the kids on Saturdays. She's in university here in Cochabamba and wants to get involved in a ministry on the side. We met for sodas last week to talk it over, and I think she'll be a great help.
I'm also hoping to get my Bolivian friend Betty to work with me on Saturdays. She used to live a couple doors down from the center, so she and her 3 kids would come and hang out everyday. After a couple of months, Julie hired her to make the snack and run the kitchen. She came to know the Lord a few months later, and Julie set her up with a Bolivian woman to help disciple her. Betty worked with us until early 2007 when her abusive and horribly controlling husband put his foot down and said that she needs to be at home during the day.
Me and Betty in 2004
Betty's kids in my living room: Karen, Alejandro, and Andrea
Since then, she and her family have moved from their tiny, abode house up near the center into another tiny 2-room house not too far from where I live. We stay in touch. In fact, I just had her and her 3 kids over 2 weeks ago to watch The Incredibles in Spanish, munch on popcorn, and drink an ungodly amount of Coke.
Betty doesn't go to church or have any Christian influence in her life except for me at the moment. We've tried to meet and go to church together on Sundays, but she never shows up (I blame her husband). She's really interested in doing a Bible study together, which we can hopefully start in the next few weeks. Needless to say, I'd love to have her with me every Saturday, and I may have to go ask her husband for his permission.
I hate that she is stuck in an abusive relationship with a horrible man and that she has zero hope of changing things. In this culture, women still have very little value. Feminism and women's rights have never made it down here. Women marry young because they exist only to be wives and mothers. Physical abuse is acceptable and normal. And men are free to cheat with other women whenever they want to.
I could rant and rave for a while about the role of women in Bolivia, but I'll save that for another post.
I was very excited to finally track down Juanda, a little girl who was in my class in 2004. She lived at El Centro with her aunt, who was our caretaker in 2004. Apparently, during the past couple of years, Juanda was dumped at girls' home when her aunt and uncle took off for Argentina in attempt to find better paying jobs. I was able to go visit her during Carnival while all the kids were off school, and I'm hoping to make regular trips out there. I meet her 2 sisters, who live in the orphanage with her, and was told about her 3 brothers who live in an all-boys orphanage.
The home where she lives is pretty lousy. It's right on the main highway (literally just a few feet off the roadway) between Cochabamba and La Paz. There are 31 girls who live there, share all their clothes, sleep in bunk beds in a room with a concrete floor, and play in a garden that could fit in my living room. However, the women that run the home really do care about the girls, and Jaunda is happy that she's finally living with her sisters. So it's not all bad.
I want to visit her on a regular basis so that she'll know that she has not been forgotten by the world and that her life matters to somebody.
People need hope. So many of the people here - like Juanda and Betty - live in hopelessness because they believe that there is nothing they can do to change their circumstances. And unfortunately, in this country, that's often the way it is. I think sometimes the best thing we can do is give them hope...hope that this isn't all there is and this isn't how the world is supposed to be.